Motherhood expectation vs reality-Women have so many expectations about their Motherhood. Their expectations are different from reality. Expectations make you love your Motherhood and truth will make you feel that what a monster your child is.
Glow after baby’s birth
Expectation:
Women expect that after giving birth to a baby, their skin will glow and look flawless.
Reality:
But Reality is the opposite. You don’t look that beautiful as you were earlier. Your skin gets oily, and you start breaking out, and the worse one is stretch marks.
Breastfeeding
Expectation:
When your baby gets hungry, you take the little one aside and give some milk; the baby is quiet and calm during that.
Reality:
Babies scream a lot when they are hungry, to find a quiet place is very difficult. Baby doesn’t want latch on.
Putting the baby to sleep
Expectation:
After a long day at night, you sing a sweet song to make the baby sleep. You put down the baby in the cot and go to your bed.
Reality:
There is nothing like the cot exists. Babies don’t sleep the whole night. In fact, they woke up many times in the night and disturb your sleep. Moreover, you have to make baby sleep on your bed.
Taking Selfie With Baby
Expectation:
Mother and baby pose together in such a way that they look amazing. Their pictures are beautiful together which makes others jealous.
Reality:
Your kid is pulling your phone from your hand and snatching your hair, and you feel like your child is a monster.
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Teaching your child how to talk
Expectation:
Your child tries to speak Mumma and daddy after you spell it out.
Reality:
Your child’s first word is No, and it becomes so difficult for a mother to make spell a single word from her child’s mouth.
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Traveling with a baby
Expectation:
From the time the journey starts your child goes for sound sleep and makes your trip amazing.
Reality:
But the fact is different; they start torturing the fellow passengers, start roaming here and there and make your trip very difficult.
Your kid listening to you
Expectation:
The world is at peace once you say no to your child for the toy he wants.
Reality:
Businessmen’s targets get fulfilled in this business. If your child wants a toy then no matter what happens and no matter what you are saying he will get it from you by hook or by crook.
Loving motherhood
Expectation:
The time you give birth to a baby, you can’t stay away from them. You want them near you and love them.
Reality:
Once you give birth to a baby then for a few years you forget your sleep. They will make you go crazy.
Losing baby weight
Expectation:
By doing exercise in between the baby’s nap, you can go back to your perfect figure and reduce pregnancy weight within no time.
Reality:
Losing weight is not just that easy. You don’t get enough time to do exercise and take care of yourself.
Baby’s first birthday
Expectation:
The birthday of your baby is the time for celebration. You call all your relatives and other mothers in your social circle, through a party, have a lovely birthday cake and get a perfect outfit for your kid.
Reality:
You throw a birthday party, your kid goes to sleep fast, you are half asleep, and children are wandering here and there in your house.
