The only master who should guide you on your life should be the one and only- you. Your decision is yours, and your life is only yours to live. No one should be able to control or have a say in your life.
We depend on our family as children, and they do help us when times get bad. But when we touch adulthood, we need to grow our wings and learn to fly with them too. Here are a few hints that will help you ward off any negative energy in your life.
Stay clear of what we are warning you about, right here! Read on.
1. Engaging you in silly debates
Wasted time and energy are worse than wasted money. It is not viable to prove something to somebody who has set their hearts onto something. There are people who wouldn’t even try and see your point of view; they won’t try stepping out of their heads for once. Not worth your energy right? Nah.
2. Making you feel bad about your past
We all have bittersweet memories of the past wherein we might have failed and gotten up too. People who keep a record and remind you of all this constantly should stay away from. Do not be shameful of your past, tehy made you what you are today. They could be horrendous experiences, but don’t be afraid of your past. Nor let it misguide you.
3. Making a fool out of you
Ignoring someone’s deception will only end up making it your reality. When you find that someone is lying, being silent will only make situations tense. Patience isn’t great when it comes to lies ad it will encourage the person to fool around more.
4. Convincing you that change is not good
People fear change, and we know these kinds. These people are too fearful to come out of their cocoons which is alright! But it is not okay to drag you there too. You should let your wings guide you, don’t let the world belittle you. These people are driven by uncertainty, not logic, so who needs their say anyway?
5. Making you lose your hobbies
We should hold on to things that make us happy. You are on the right track if your hobby keeps you happy. If someone tries to pull you out of it, don’t pay any attention! You should not let anyone come between your passion.
6. Convincing you to strive for something impossible
You should portray gratitude for things we already have. Be rational and stop making impossible demands for yourselves and don’t allow others to do so too. Be blessed with what you have. It will keep you happy at all times.
7. Leading you on a dangerous path
Great things need time and hard work. Some people reach their target almost effortlessly. But that does not imply that their path and our oath matches. We all look at life differently and what works out for someone may not work for you. Never let anyone consult you into something misleading. Have faith in yourself.
8. Talk you out when you work hard
There are times when some hurdles come in the way just before achieving your target. People who truly love you will always have faith in you. There are people who will amke you doubt your abilities, watch out for these types.
9. Keep you from achieving those dreams
Worthy things do not come with ease. The path to success will gift you with many hurdles and disappointments too. You might have critics, bad mouthing and maybe more. There will be a few people who will still not give up on you and make you soar higher. Beleive in your dreams and keep fighting those battles! The best is yet to come.
Do not let people do these things to you! Do you agree with these 9 pointers?